why i am pissed off

the situation (to paste into chat GPT)

i gave a clear signal i was done but he wanted a moment for himself repeating my name
i ignored it and left things calm for mum
he tried to pull me into a dynamic
when someone dont want engage with tries to pull you in it hits the nervous system.
intrusive - turning up
would rattle in his wallet is a very flimsy excuse aimed at plausible deniability
deliberate but subtle
i don’t need confirmation of intent. assuming it was intentional with a slither of doubt is enough for me.
does he understand how rude or offensive it is to return a gift